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Welcome to The Thinking Man's Pin-Up. So glad you could make it and a big thanks for stopping by! Here, you'll find no-BS, common-sensical dating and relationship advice with a side of compassion, understanding and a whole lotta love. Let's face it: Dating is hard. It's messy, it's imperfect and you could always use some extra intuition and insight to guide you towards your happiest, healthiest, best outcome. The Thinking Man's Pin-Up is written by and for you smart, sexy, stylish females out there. You are outstandingly special, and I hope you know that you have a lot to offer yourself, this world and a partner. We could all use a gentle reminder about this from time to time. And those dates and significant others that you meet? They should be reminded of this too. The Thinking Man's Pin-Up has the tools to empower you to decipher the good, the bad and the douchey in today's complicated dating culture. You won't regret your time spent here. Promise.
 
 

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